Listing Enhancements / Listing Approval

i have 2 question. 1. i need to add more lists to the listing enhancements.. i don’t want to be limited to just

Front Page Exposure

Top of Category Results

Highlighted Listing

HTML Listing Content

Visitor Counter

Google Map

and secondly, how the i approve members manually without them paying or how does the system automatically list them without my help of approving.

Thank you