Help again ..argg Listings :)

As to my previous post about memberships…I have looked over hours of advice and videos and I am still having issues…I get the setup but nothing is working

All I want is a member to sign up for free with the free membership I made..I only want one listing..as in their profile this is a dating site..no multiple profiles…the error I get over and over no matter what I do..delete ..edit..etc…is you have reached your submission limit..(popular error)

So I have setup free 365(6) day membership..I have made a free package that links to the free membership package…I have selected on and off buttons for only 1 listing..I have allowed 30 listings..I have hidden memberships packages..etc..done everything as advised in other articles,,,but no matter what I cant go and edit account it says limited reached..this is with admin account and a dummy account…what am I doing wrong? I have done all patterns of things now…Thanks again..

PS I also had this problem when I first bought theme then it stopped then it came back again..but it wasnt a concern at time…I just use default theme page for account and profile,,